Archive for December, 2010

December 31, 2010

Not wanted / wanted

It is natural that by knowing what you do not want, you are able to clarify what you do want; and there is nothing wrong with identifying a problem before beginning to look for a solution. But many people, over time, become problem oriented rather than solution oriented, and in their examination and explanation of the problem, they continue the perpetuation of the problem. That which is like unto itself, is drawn—so tell the story you want to live and you will eventually live it.
– Abraham-Hicks

Being with family now during the holidays, comes with a lot of unwanted contrast. I just need to re-focus and realize that I have power over my own experience!
I don’t like feeling limited.
–> I am free of other people’s mood.

I don’t like feeling uncomfortable.
–> I can feel great, even when others around don’t. I create my reality.

I don’t like being influenced by other people.
–> I can be joyous and attract happy people around me.

I don’t like having to spend time with negative people.
–> I expect to be with positive people, I see the beauty in everyone, I can have fun anytime, anywhere and with anyone.

I don’t like having to wonder what others think of me.
–> The only thing that matters to me, is that I am in the Vortex and it’s about what I think, not what they think. I create my life, they don’t. My life is fun!


December 30, 2010

Dealing with unhappy people

Abraham hicks:
“The only way unhappy people can stay in your life is when you focus on their unhappiness”

“If there is someone that’s behaving in an unhappy way and you’ve observed it for a while, without meaning to, you allowed them to train you into a vibrational expectation of how they are. So it takes some effort to see around that, because it’s how they behave and how you’ve come to expect them to behave. But when you discover that how you expect them to behave is a bigger component than how they behave, then you begin to understand the power of influence you have. So if you hold someone (it’s easier when you’re not with them) as your object of attention by making lists of positive aspects and you train your vibration about them into a different place then they usually offer; one of two things has to happen: They either change their behaviour when they are with you or they don’t come near you, because law of attraction wont put you together.”

December 29, 2010

Feeling limited/Habits of behaviour

I’m currently home with my family. Which is not something that occurs very often. Even though I’m just 18, I haven’t spend much time with at home (I was living abroad) let alone with my family. But I’m not the exception, my siblings are scattered all over the world. It’s just how we roll, I suppose. My parents used to say that we were born on packed suitcases as most of us seemed to have a natural curiosity and great interest in other countries.

Anyway, so we’re having some sort of family reunion at the moment. Some of us haven’t seen each other for years or months at a time.

I realize that I’m behaving differently. Being away from home, I could present myself as I wanted to.  I didn’t try to please anyone; I was independent of the good opinion others have of me.

I notice about myself, that I don’t feel as joyful as I was before I arrived here. I think this place just has so much memories, plus everyone already has a picture of how I was/am supposed to be.

December 20, 2010

My authentic self


I am confident.
I adore myself.
I’m smart.
I’m non-judgemntal.
I dream big.
I know deep down that anything I desire is achievable.
I am a creator.
I am most creative.
I’m kind.
I’m loving.
I’m joyful.
I’m successful.
I’m beautiful, inside and out.
I’m talented.
I’m fun.
I take care of myself.
I have a positve perspective.
I like breathing.
I’m appreciative.
I’m exciting.
I’m uplifting.
I’m inspirational.
I’m wealthy.
I’m expanding.
I’m in the perfect place.
I’m aware.
And I live in the now.